How to bend a new chastity belt

The key to comfort in steel belts is that you need to bend the belt to adjust to your body the first few times you put it on. After you get the bending just right, it will be very comfortable.

There used to be a great article on bending lockmeup.com, but that forum is dead and gone.

First of all: Question #1: Is the belt made to accurate measurements of your body? If you bought the belt off of eBay or elsewhere and it was not made for you, then there is little chance that it will ever actually fit you well. Sell it and put the funds towards getting a belt made for you, if you still want to go there.

Let's say that the belt was indeed made for you. The process will take about a week or two of daily wear-and-bending sessions.

Wear the belt for a bit, note where the pressure points are, then take it off and bend it.

Don't wear the belt for more than half an hour or you will feel chafed and sore because there will be pressure points.

A good solid edge an inch or two wide is all you need to bend the steel. It's really thick metal, so a sturdy chair back, the back of a sofa are the sorts of surfaces you need. I like to use the foot of my bed. Put a towel on top of the surface if you don't want to scratch it.

The first part of the belt to address is the waistband. If you put on your belt right out of the box, you'll probably notice that it pinches you at the two flanges of your pelvis in front of your body. You want to bend the waistband so that it becomes a rounded capital D shape with the flat part of the D being the front.

The second part would be the front shield. It sounds like you have a penis tube, so that's what you are going to have to adjust it into position for. Think of the front shield as a shallow S shape, and you'll just have to figure out how to adjust the angle and the height of the tube so that it fits over your trouser snake just right.

This second part can be very frustrating. The angle's right but the height's too high or too low, or vice versa. Stick with it, and soon you'll get it right.

The Exobelt Extreme has been getting a lot of attention lately. Could it be the next great male chastity device design? It looks intriguing, but owing to my current financial difficulties, my wife and I have put me on a BDSM budget moratorium until the end of the year :( Well, at least she's willing to talk about it now... And that's okay, I've got lots of toys to play with until then :)

Okay, it's on my New Year's wish list!

Sadly, Reinhold, the composite chastity belt maker has decided not to visit the US this year to take orders and measurements as was posted in some hopeful messages earlier this year.

Okay, it's been a few years since I've last posted to this blog. RL has caught me and my interest in sharing with you all has been limited to various forums. Anyway, I'm wasting too much time on my fetishes lately, so I've been wracking my brain trying to come up with ways to cut down.

One big thing is being deluged with pictures from various picture groups on Yahoo. Before I unsubscribe to them, Here are my favorites so that I might share them with you in case you're interested:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BootedCorsetedGlovedWomenPalace/
http://br.groups.yahoo.com/group/Imagens_BDSM/ - Huge bucketloads of pictures everyday!
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BestOfBallGags

To get the pictures on what are basically email lists, you need to subscribe to "Individual emails" so that you can receive the pictures which are attachments in each email.

Of course this list isn't comprehensive and you can find groups to suit your individual tastes.

I've been obsessing over burqas lately. This all started with reading Lady In Latex II's blog and her descriptions of the sensual feel of her latex burqa.

Technically, the garment is an Afghani chador or chadri, invented by some Afghan king to keep his wives safe from public view, and recently re-popularized by the Taliban running amok in that country.

Technically, a burqa is just the head covering and veil. In the case of the chador, it's become an entire outer garment in and of itself.

Anyway, the lightweight feel of a burqa and loose silky clothes underneath holds some sensual appeal to me.

Never mind it's yet another piece of clothing that's used for repressing women, like the corset, chastity belt and other things that I'm obsessed with.

In my wanderings through Google, it turns out there's an entire genre of web stores catering to Islamic dress codes, including the comical burqini swimsuit. There are also a host of yahoo groups catering to veiling fetishists, hijab-wearing crossdressers and others who share my interest.

For some reason, I find myself attracted to the common Afghan blue chador.

Part of the attraction for me is that the woman could be wearing anything under there. She could be wearing a traditional abayah, or naked with a bondage harness and plugs. Mmm, there's a picture...

I'm thinking about writing a story where the female American victim is captured and forced to live under a burqa. I imagine that she's controlled by high-tech devices fastened to her. Her captors seeing everything she sees, hearing everything she hears, and she's tightly gagged, with a voice coming through a speaker to speak for her. The problem with that is: Why would her captors let her go out like that?

The Burqa Band music video kind of hammers home the idea that this is such a common look in Afghanistan that you really don't know who is who under these things. It's kind of like enforced identity loss, another idea that appeals to me.

Why don't we recognize when we're in funks?

I just got out of a depression, and it just felt awful. Now I'm feeling better again, but why didn't I recognize it and seek help earlier?

Okay, so caffeine is a depressant. So is alcohol. So is too much sugar.

If somebody comes and tells me that chocolate causes depression, I'm jumping off a bridge.

Didn't I write this before somewhere?

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Now that Reinholds is back, it's got my creative juices flowing again.

I think what I have to do is make another bodycast, and build a belt prototype on the inside by painting the shape of the belt using silicone, then building walls for the mould with polymer clay, then painting the shell using resin. Whaddya think?

There are several groups on Yahoo where I can get my porn fix by email almost daily it seems.



One of the more interesting photos I've seen recently from these groups.

I like them because the posters share my specific interests, armbinders in this case, although the model's corseted waist is distinctly featured here.

Yes, armbinders/single sleeves are really awfully painful to wear, but a nice tight one on a woman looks goddamned sexy.

Today was productive. Went to this meeting that I'd meant to go to for a long time. Did some promotions for my business, got one step closer to properly refinancing my apartment.

I can't have caffeine, alcohol, or excessive sugar because they all send me into weeklong bouts of depression. Now that is depressing.

If a doctor tells me next that I can't eat any chocolate or ice cream, then I'm jumping off a bridge!

Reinholds is back!!!

The world's only professional maker of composite chastity belts has returned with a new web address:

http://www.reinholds.eu

And his belts are looking slimmer and more graceful than ever!




For a mere thousand or so euros, plus a visit to Germany for your bodycast, you could own one...